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[JC]CREATIVE 婚禮視覺 | 珍視最愛你的與疼惜陪伴你到最後的她 To cherish , to love and to honor the one that you love...

photo _ [JC]CREATIVE / make up _ JOY TAI /  flowers _ Z'milez Floral Design /   Wedding ring _ T&C 緹囍手工訂製珠寶工作室 /   dress _ Jasmine Galleria /  location _  香港陽明山莊 Hong Kong Parkview

photo _ [JC]CREATIVE / make up _ JOY TAI / flowers _ Z'milez Floral Design / Wedding ring _ T&C 緹囍手工訂製珠寶工作室 / dress _ Jasmine Galleria / location _ 香港陽明山莊 Hong Kong Parkview

每個人都經由母體才能成功來到世上。

成年後我們必須脫離父母,成為真正獨立成長的個體。當我們進入婚姻,是否有足夠的成熟建立一個家?

常言婚姻中最擔心是婆媳之間相處的問題,其實只要超過一個人的空間,就一定有人際溝通問題的發生。

無論我們在任何的角色當中,沒辦法進行良性溝通,是因為人都需要被肯定,也因為太在乎對方,可是我們卻又太容易各持己見,以至有溝沒有通!不同成長背景的二人,到後來兩個家族合為一家人,都是緣份,緣深緣淺也憑我們是否願意看見對方的心?

妻子要接納,再有缺點的婆婆,她都是最愛你丈夫的女人,她的愛必定無條件地比妳愛丈夫的深。別試圖去攻陷婆婆在丈夫心中,那沒法可以被取代的地位,丈夫永遠不會忘記他脆弱時在母親懷抱中如何感受被愛的滋養。

母親要接受,再有缺點的媳婦,她都是愛兒自己選擇,若她感受到丈夫的疼惜,在沒有意外下,她必定是陪伴兒子比妳久的人。別試圖去爭奪媳婦與自己在兒子心中的份量,因為媳婦能帶給兒子愛情與肌膚之親上的精神喜悅,母親永遠也無法可以給予的。

丈夫要學習明瞭,生命中最重要的兩個女人,一個是你在天上已作出選擇,一個是你在人間作出的選擇。即是說,一位是無論你個性脾氣再討厭,她對你的愛是不變的。一位是如果你不學習改善你那討人厭的惡習,她是有權利選擇更好的。所以,在母親前你可以永遠當一位孩子,在妻子前偶然也可以當一位孩子,但前提是你有足夠的韌性和承擔力,成為一家之主的角色。

女人不要再為難女人了,如其同時向男人抱怨,何不一起協力培育男人情感的表達力和溝通力?

男人不要再誤會說女人是水做因為愛哭了,女人只是要脆弱到成為一水,方能水穿石,順流逆流,成為男人脆弱時的堡壘。只要男人足夠成熟,必能看破,同生共樂!

請珍視最愛你的與疼惜陪伴你到最後的她。

We were brought to this world through our wonderful mother.

When one needs to be independent , to lead his / her own life and enter the holy matrimony of marriage and life after that, is he / she capable of doing so?

Is she / he can endure the process of leaving the old motherly bond ( from birth) and make a new bond with the new life partner…?

The common tussle in any marriage has always been the issue of who is in charge, who have the last say...be it between the couple, be it between the younger and older generation. this, has its root back to the issue of motherly and marriage bond.often, the insistence of the elderly and the innocent of the young, in the process of gaining recognition for themselves, lead to a wrong footing , wrong start.

In any space filled out with more than 1 individual, the art of communication plays vital role, let alone in a situation where marriage is a unification of more than 2 individuals with different upbringing and background were brought into one small space...

As a wife / husband , as a younger generation, he / she no doubt will be benefited from the experience and wisdom of the old. as the elderly, they should extend their love to the new member of the family, regardless of his / her background, and share with them their wisdom.The elderly need not fight for favor as they will forever be remember as the guiding hand from birth, the mentor  and the wise one.

The youngster need not try to prove themselves eagerly and establishing who is in charge.

Its very simple.

A caring mother will cherish, care and love her son/daughter from birth, out of her maternal instinct. as life progresses, the young son/daughter will choose a life partner to continue and enjoy the same kind of cherish, love and care .

As an elderly, she should be glad that her legacy has been extended…

As a man, please cherish your life partner, do not see them as fragile and treat them with respect, cherish them with love, as she will be your leaning pole when you are weak and.

 

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[JC]CREATIVE 婚禮視覺 | 男人之間的溫柔 The tender side of man

男人,是世界上不得不堅強卻又脆弱的生物。
聚會中,男人在歡笑聲中那沈默的眼神,是不能揭露的秘密,叫沉重。

Men, are the most strong yet fragile being in this world,they live with a brave face and fragile heart.in any public gathering, the silent yet steady look in their eyes , often hide the innermost feeling of themselves.

若生命當中,連一位可以容許自己脫下面具,知道自己的好,知道自己的壞,
知道自己勇氣與焦慮的朋友也沒有,只能永遠在人群前,照顧那深怕會掉下來的好形象,會是多麼的累與孤寂?

In life, we often put on a brave face and hide our feeling using different mask.
what if one can’t even have one close friend, where he/she can let go all the masks, facade and express and share all his intimate feeling ? he will be devastated, stressed and isolated. totally alone.

稱你一聲好友,因為視你為知己。
稱你一聲兄弟,因為視你如手足。
稱你一聲老兄弟,因為你已是我生命中不可缺少的溫柔。

my friend, my confidant, my mate…
you are my the tender side of myself

 

 

photographer | [JC]CREATIVE
Wedding ring | T&C 緹囍手工訂製珠寶工作室
make up | More Than Make Up (HK)
flowers | Z'milez Floral Design (HK)
location | 香港陽明山莊 Hong Kong Parkview


 

[JC]CREATIVE | 婚禮視覺

 新人是台灣女生與香港男生結合的一對佳偶。

JC 在 T&C 緹囍手工訂製珠寶工作室,聽著設計師TEDDY分享著他為一對新人設計婚戒過程的故事與構思。
新人Tina & Anton 帶著A+T=[本]以及使用本字的甲骨文的概念找Teddy 。最終把概念成功製訂出如此優質且深具意義的婚戒! 就像JC 影像一直傳遞以 [ 人 ] 為本的意涵, 無論戀愛或婚姻或工作或人生,人本的價值對了,任何事就自然跟著對了。


攝影 | [JC]CREATIVE
婚戒|TEDDY @T&C 緹囍手工訂製珠寶工作室
地點|香港陽明山莊 Hong Kong Parkview