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每個人都經由母體才能成功來到世上。

成年後我們必須脫離父母，成為真正獨立成長的個體。當我們進入婚姻，是否有足夠的成熟建立一個家？

常言婚姻中最擔心是婆媳之間相處的問題，其實只要超過一個人的空間，就一定有人際溝通問題的發生。

無論我們在任何的角色當中，沒辦法進行良性溝通，是因為人都需要被肯定，也因為太在乎對方，可是我們卻又太容易各持己見，以至有溝沒有通！不同成長背景的二人，到後來兩個家族合為一家人，都是緣份，緣深緣淺也憑我們是否願意看見對方的心？

妻子要接納，再有缺點的婆婆，她都是最愛你丈夫的女人，她的愛必定無條件地比妳愛丈夫的深。別試圖去攻陷婆婆在丈夫心中，那沒法可以被取代的地位，丈夫永遠不會忘記他脆弱時在母親懷抱中如何感受被愛的滋養。

母親要接受，再有缺點的媳婦，她都是愛兒自己選擇，若她感受到丈夫的疼惜，在沒有意外下，她必定是陪伴兒子比妳久的人。別試圖去爭奪媳婦與自己在兒子心中的份量，因為媳婦能帶給兒子愛情與肌膚之親上的精神喜悅，母親永遠也無法可以給予的。

丈夫要學習明瞭，生命中最重要的兩個女人，一個是你在天上已作出選擇，一個是你在人間作出的選擇。即是說，一位是無論你個性脾氣再討厭，她對你的愛是不變的。一位是如果你不學習改善你那討人厭的惡習，她是有權利選擇更好的。所以，在母親前你可以永遠當一位孩子，在妻子前偶然也可以當一位孩子，但前提是你有足夠的韌性和承擔力，成為一家之主的角色。

女人不要再為難女人了，如其同時向男人抱怨，何不一起協力培育男人情感的表達力和溝通力？

男人不要再誤會說女人是水做因為愛哭了，女人只是要脆弱到成為一滴水，方能水穿石，順流逆流，成為男人脆弱時的堡壘。只要男人足夠成熟，必能看破，同生共樂！

請珍視最愛你的與疼惜陪伴你到最後的她。

We were brought to this world through our wonderful mother.

When one needs to be independent , to lead his / her own life and enter the holy matrimony of marriage and life after that, is he / she capable of doing so?

Is she / he can endure the process of leaving the old motherly bond ( from birth) and make a new bond with the new life partner…?

The common tussle in any marriage has always been the issue of who is in charge, who have the last say...be it between the couple, be it between the younger and older generation. this, has its root back to the issue of motherly and marriage bond.often, the insistence of the elderly and the innocent of the young, in the process of gaining recognition for themselves, lead to a wrong footing , wrong start.

In any space filled out with more than 1 individual, the art of communication plays vital role, let alone in a situation where marriage is a unification of more than 2 individuals with different upbringing and background were brought into one small space...

As a wife / husband , as a younger generation, he / she no doubt will be benefited from the experience and wisdom of the old. as the elderly, they should extend their love to the new member of the family, regardless of his / her background, and share with them their wisdom.The elderly need not fight for favor as they will forever be remember as the guiding hand from birth, the mentor and the wise one.

The youngster need not try to prove themselves eagerly and establishing who is in charge.

Its very simple.

A caring mother will cherish, care and love her son/daughter from birth, out of her maternal instinct. as life progresses, the young son/daughter will choose a life partner to continue and enjoy the same kind of cherish, love and care .

As an elderly, she should be glad that her legacy has been extended…

As a man, please cherish your life partner, do not see them as fragile and treat them with respect, cherish them with love, as she will be your leaning pole when you are weak and.

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